help me

I'm 13 and I really wanna get pregnant. I dont care about what it will take to get there I just really want a baby. I even have a baby App on my phone. her name is EsmÉ :)
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By: PinkPadUser
Member since Aug 19, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
Hey, I went through a stage where I wanted a baby too. Trust me. U dont want a baby at the age of 13. I have a 5 Month old brother, and it's hard enough. I barely get any sleep, the poopy dippers are awful, and it's hard to get you life and the baby's life balanced. I havnt had any friends over in 6 months. It's embarrassing not being able to have sleepovers anymore. So I wouldn't have a baby until ur at least out of university/college
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 21, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
thanks :)
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 13, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
Hun I think you should wait til you're older. I got pregnant at 18 and now I'm a single mom at 19. It's not easy to raise a baby especially alone. You should just focus on being a teen for now. God will give you a baby when he thinks it's the right time. So just enjoy life. I hope you're using condoms if you're sexually active. I'd hate for you to get an STD at 13. I hope I have helped.
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Aug 16, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
BIG MISTAKE! Your not even old enough to support the baby on ur own you can't even work @ 13
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 21, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
actually I do work I help my uncle at his subways during the summer and I make blankets and hats during the winter
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Nov 02, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
baby fever is normal but your not ready. if your 13 your body hasn't even fully developed. wait until your married, with a job, have health and dental benefits, a car, a license, a house, and a large lump some of $$$ for the baby. you have none of those. your parents are still raising you and that will force them to raise another baby. your no where near mature enough for a baby. are you even in high school yet!?!? you have A LOTTTT of growing up to do before you even can thing about having a baby!!!!!
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 20, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
hey you may want a baby but you are 13 and your body is still growing. you cant soport a baby for the next 9 months. go on line and look at real teen pregnancies numbers. only .1% of teen moms graduate college be for 30. and over 75% dont end up with the baby daddy. my bf had twins with his ex. there were some other problems but the babys died.
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 21, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
I understand and I honestly dont care. my mom had me when she was sixteen and my sister at seventeen. she graduated high school with honors and now has the job of her dreams Even though we live with her mom we ARE happy .
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Nov 04, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
Are you even in high school yet? At,least wait to finish school. It will be worth the wait. Get that diploma!
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 21, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
thanks guys I think I'll wait a little longer
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 11, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
Dont have a baby. I wanted a baby for a while too. Sometimes girls who dont get enough love from parents and friends want a baby to love them unconditionally. Try talking to your parents about spending more time together and getcloser to your friends. Dont worry wanting a baby will pass.
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 21, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
Wut if I dont want it to pass???
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 08, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
trust me u do I was 14 and it was very hard didn't finish school big mys I wish I would have you don't get any sleep and don't get to experience life
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 22, 2010
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
You're kinda being difficult. You asked for advice so take it.
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 21, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
but I dont want to live life without a baby I dont feel like I need this world to be a happy I just want a family :'(
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 08, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
you have your hole life what's the rush
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 21, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
I think I need help nvm forget I posted this
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 08, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
OK
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Aug 30, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
R u serious!!!!?y not finish the important things in life then find u someone u can count on in then have a child!!!! Priorities first sweet heart!!!!
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 21, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
hey! I'm going through this too, I'm 16 and I really want to have a baby, I want kids with my boyfriend so bad I cannot wait either. but I know I have to Finnish school and get my life on track before a baby comes. I want my child to have the best life ever I want to be happy but being young and having a baby is hard. I watched my cousin go through teen pregnancy and I don't want to be in that position so I've decided to wait! and I hope you will to! best of luck :)
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Nov 06, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
omg my love NOOOO NOOO NOOO wait moreeee ... babies are a blessing , but pregnant at 13?!?!? im 15 and yes ive had sex but NO GLOVE, NO LOVE... i would be dissapointed in myself if i would get pregnant at this age, i first rather get that highschool diploma so i can least work at Mcdonalds. Your young and you have a great future ahead of you dont make a mistake please .. Take it to the heart . God bless you girl, and thinl with your head....
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Oct 08, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
Um hon, I'm gonna say this as lightly as possiable
1 of my best friends is pregnant and is soo depresses bc of it and u hav the nerve to say u WANT to be pregnant u have not thought this through at all u just want attention
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Dec 21, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
I think I just REALLY need help getting through this I just dont want to :/
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Oct 18, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
It would be selfish of you to bring a child into this world which you can not financially support. You can't even financially support yourself. Your 13. You want a kid, when you yourself are a kid.
By: PinkPadUser
Member since Nov 26, 2011
Posted: on Dec 21, 2011
Wait. You'll accomplish absolutely nothing and put yourself and the child at risk with you being so young. There's a reason people try and wait til their 20's...

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