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I've put this off for so long because everyone seems to treat sex like a coolness or state of normality symbol, the more you have the more normal and cool you are. I've been sexually active since I was 16 I'm not 23 I've had a series of long term boyfriends (now a fiancé) and I have had sex with all of them. I don't have a problem climaxing from clitorial stimulation but I've never climaxed from penetration. At the beginning of each relationship we go at it like rabbits then reality kicks in and I say not now I have homework or we have to get up early we should go to sleep. I put everything else before sex and my failing libido. We'll go through patches where we do it a lot and then it can be like 6 months when we don't. I just don't feel any sexual inclination.

With my fiancé it's been a little different we didn't jump into bed I wanted to wait, to learn to respect myself and not think 'he'll like me if I show him how sexually adventurous I can be'. That was a really big step forward for me. I have had incidents when I was young and guys have taken advantage but I would never use the rape card, it was never that. I tried sex therapy when I was 20/21 but after a few sessions I wanted to change therapists and they never called me back. I told myself I would just get through uni then I could put my efforts into solving this problem. Well I've been out of uni a year and I'm getting married in 2 months and I want to start making some progress at finding my libido. We're TTC as well but even though we can use lube to 'do the deed' I want a happy healthy sex life. My DF is very understanding and is trying to help but I just don't know what to do. I want to want sex I just don't want sex.

Last but not least I live in France but I'm British so I don't know where I can access counseling or professional help, here the language barrier is too great to be able to explain myself thoroughly.

Thank you for any help, advice or support you can offer, anyone who wants to laugh at my misfortune of not having sex very often, take it somewhere else.

I'm 22 wks with DD #2. I've been feeling her move about for about 4 weeks now, but she isn't moving up at all. I never feel movement higher than my hips. My first was always pretty high, like rib kicks and stomach jabs. Just not sure how normal this is.

I feel so horrible my bf has asthma and he can't get that Primatene mist inhaler any more. (the only thing he found that works for him) He was sick all of last week and missed allot work n since he was sick his diabetes was acting up really bad. He doesn't have insurance and wouldn't be able to afford it for another yr till his daughter turns 18 n he doesn't have to pay child support so he can't go to the doctor. I feel so bad that I can't do any thing for him.

My mom recently had a heart attack and she told me that when i was born my dad wasnt there. he was off drinking with his brother. i mean i came into the world in 27 minutes of labor. mom and dad thought she would be in there a long time but within 5 minutes of him leaving (i was the 5th/last baby) i was born.. should i be angry with my dad?

I have a question..so our bedroom is super hott in the summer. I sleep with 3 fans, ceiling fan, floor fan, and window fan....I want our son to sleep in our room. My husband is freaking about the fans. What do you guys think? When I say hot, I mean hot. If its 80degrees out prob 95degrees in room??? Help

My son used to sleep very well when he was an infant. At about one he started getting up once a night. By two it started to be a couple times. He just turned three and is up 4/5 times a night! I seriously need help! He has always had the same bedtime routine. Dinner at 5:30, bath at 6, down time from 6:30-7:30 ( watch a little bit of his favorite show then story time) bed at 8 pm. He is hyper active naturally. He doesn't get any sweets or drink or food that has sugar added. Drinks water or milk and I cook very healthy for him. My daughter isn't like this and I have no idea what to do? He's cranky all day now because of lack of sleep and won't even take a nap anymore. I've tried praise, making him cry it out.. Everything. He has a few health issues that have been taking care of allergies and tubes from ear infections. He's potty trained so it's not that either, he isn't up to want to play, eat, something to drink either, just wants to cry! Im a very consistent mommy with everything. Any other suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!!

My son used to sleep very well when he was an infant. At about one he started getting up once a night. By two it started to be a couple times. He just turned three and is up 4/5 times a night! I seriously need help! He has always had the same bedtime routine. Dinner at 5:30, bath at 6, down time from 6:30-7:30 ( watch a little bit of his favorite show then story time) bed at 8 pm. He is hyper active naturally. He doesn't get any sweets or drink or food that has sugar added. Drinks water or milk and I cook very healthy for him. My daughter isn't like this and I have no idea what to do? He's cranky all day now because of lack of sleep and won't even take a nap anymore. I've tried praise, making him cry it out.. Everything. He has a few health issues that have been taking care of allergies and tubes from ear infections. He's potty trained so it's not that either, he isn't up to want to play, eat, something to drink either, just wants to cry! Im a very consistent mommy with everything. Any other suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!!

hello my son is four and he still sleeps with me and randomly he'll wake up and literally do things while his eyes are closed sometimes it freaks me out is it normal?

Are stretch marks really genetic? I find that hard to believe and it sounds flat out silly to me. Like how the hell can stretch marks be genetic?!?!?!

we have been talking about trying for another baby. my husband said today that he will be picking the name. i absoluetly hate the name he wants. isis (pronounced ice iss). im not going to have a baby with a horrible stupid name, and i dont want to argue with him for nine months about the name. he is determined that will be the name.should i just give up hope of another baby?